Online dating is about locating the one for you! Not the one for
anybody else. So forget about who your pals say you need...ignore
what your loved ones said is best for you. It is your life and not
only are your choices up to you, when you make bad decisions you
need to deal with them! Not your friends...not your loved
ones!
So, finding the choice for you is about you!
find the one
Do you know who and what you would like? Get out a pencil and paper. You need to make 2 columns;
Most important items and Options. These 2 column headings are pretty self explanatory. The "Must Haves" are things and characteristics the person/relationship absolutely Should have! These are deal breakers, not negotiable, it is absolute and absolutely nothing is ever going to change them.
The Options is your "wish" list. These are the things that can take a "good" relationship and transform it into an "extraordinary" relationship! But you can live without the "options".
While locating the one for you, you will need to refer to your lists often. When you receive emails from Singles, go to their profile and determine when they fit your "Must Have" list. If so, you should preserve communicating with them until a relationship is established or you begin to discover things that aren't in your must have list. At that point, it's time to end the connection.
find the one soul-mate
When you're browsing member profiles, ensure the Singles fit your "Must Have" list before contacting them. This can save you considerable time!
So, finding the choice for you is about you!
find the one
Do you know who and what you would like? Get out a pencil and paper. You need to make 2 columns;
Most important items and Options. These 2 column headings are pretty self explanatory. The "Must Haves" are things and characteristics the person/relationship absolutely Should have! These are deal breakers, not negotiable, it is absolute and absolutely nothing is ever going to change them.
The Options is your "wish" list. These are the things that can take a "good" relationship and transform it into an "extraordinary" relationship! But you can live without the "options".
While locating the one for you, you will need to refer to your lists often. When you receive emails from Singles, go to their profile and determine when they fit your "Must Have" list. If so, you should preserve communicating with them until a relationship is established or you begin to discover things that aren't in your must have list. At that point, it's time to end the connection.
find the one soul-mate
When you're browsing member profiles, ensure the Singles fit your "Must Have" list before contacting them. This can save you considerable time!
